Am I expecting too much?

Last year I was diagnosed with stage 3 cancer. After undergoing aggressive chemotherapy, a radical mastectomy and 6 weeks of daily radiation treatments,miraculously, I am a proud survivor! I don't want to sound as if the enormity of this blessing is lost upon me for it most definitely is not! I cherish each second of each day I have been given! My surgery was a year ago today. Am I expecting too much of the amazing, loving group of family and friends who supported me throughout this past year, to have remembered? Not so much my friends but my husband and Mom I did expect to acknowledge today's date. I was hurt that they didn't. Am I out of line? Thanks for your opinion=)